Ezekiel Ufuoma LuckyAUTHOR · URBAN PLANNER · RESEARCHER

Let Yourself Be Helped

Dear You, You have become very good at saying, “I am fine.” You say it when you are tired. You say it when your thoughts feel too heavy to explain. You say it when somebody notices the strain in your voice and asks whether you need anything. “I…

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Let Life Be Beautiful Now

Dear You, You keep promising yourself that you will enjoy life later. When the money is better. When the work is finished. When the uncertainty disappears. When you finally reach the position, complete the project, buy the house, meet the right person or become the version of yourself…

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Begin Before You Feel Ready

Dear You, You have been waiting to feel ready. Ready to submit the application. Ready to begin the business. Ready to share your work. Ready to have the difficult conversation. Ready to return to the dream you once placed aside. You keep…

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When The Road Changes

Dear You, Life does not always honour the plans we make. You can think carefully, pray sincerely, prepare thoroughly and still watch the road change without your permission. An opportunity disappears. A relationship ends. A door that appeared certain refuses to open.…

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You Are Allowed To Say No

Dear You, You are allowed to say no. Not angrily. Not cruelly. Not because you have stopped caring. You are allowed to say no simply because you have reached your limit. You have spent so much time trying to be there for…

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A Letter To Myself

Dear Me, I know you have been trying. Perhaps nobody sees the full extent. They see the smile, the effort, the small victories and the way you keep showing up. What they may not see are the private questions you carry, the…

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